Write down what happened — the move, the mission, the summer at your grandmother’s. Tag the people who were there. They add their photographs, their corrections, and their own account of the same day, sitting alongside yours instead of replacing it.
Private by default. Nothing is public unless you choose it, and nobody appears on a memory until they say they were there.
How it works
A paragraph is plenty. Dates can be exact, or a month, or just “sometime in 1987” — nothing gets invented to fill a gap you actually have.
They get an invitation, not a notification that it already happened. Nobody is listed on a memory until they confirm it, and anyone can take themselves off at any time.
Their photographs, their comments, their own version of the day, and corrections to the facts that you approve or decline. Two people remembering it differently is the point.
What’s different
Everywhere else, being tagged puts something on your page whether you like it or not. Here those are two separate decisions. Confirming you were on the 1993 road trip lets you add your photographs to it. Putting it on your own history is a second, deliberate choice — because a life history is a claim about who you are, and your brother shouldn’t get to make it for you.
Every memory has an audience
These rules are enforced by the database itself, not by the screens — so a bug in a page can’t leak a private memory. It simply isn’t returned.
Most people begin with the day they were born, or whatever they were thinking about when they signed up. Order doesn’t matter — the timeline sorts itself out.
Start your history